There are those who fight one day and
they are good.
There are others who fight one year
and they are better.
There are those who fight many years
and they are very good.
But there are those who fight a
lifetime:
those are the ones who are
indispensable.
-
Bertolt Brecht
Those are words that were heard
often last week after the tragic death in a car accident of Ignacio Suárez
Huape and his wife, Inés Montaño. Indispensable—and incredible human beings. I knew them before they were married in the
mid-eighties, and later I loved spending time with them and their wonderful
children, Alondra and Mauricio (now in their twenties; Alondra was involved in the accident but is now recovering; Mauricio wasn't involved). Nacho had a more public profile (congressman, journalist, human
rights activist), but Inés was supportive in all of his endeavors—besides being
involved in her own causes. They will definitely be missed as the struggle for
life with dignity and justice continues in Mexico.
Nacho and Inés at home one evening |
I am most grateful to my
great friend Gerardo Debbink for calling me immediately when he heard the sad
news. Gerardo is the founding director of Quest
Mexico, a non-profit organization in Cuernavaca devoted to social justice
through transformative and experiential education. Hundreds of groups from Canada
and the United States have taken part in Gerardo’s short-term and semester
programs. And Nacho Huape was a frequent participant in Gerardo’s programs—I
daresay an unforgettable one for all concerned. Thank you, Gerardo.
Gerardo Debbink of Quest Mexico and Nacho—two great persons |
Nacho lived in Cuernavaca,
State of Morelos, but he was always concerned about the difficult situation
here in the mountains of the State of Guerrero. He called me by phone just a
couple of weeks ago to talk about the upcoming state elections here in the
state; the elections are scheduled for Sunday, June 7. There has been a lot of violence
lately, and no one is too sure just what will happen on June 7. Indeed, in some
places (including Tlapa), many groups have said that they won’t allow voting to
take place. And more police and army have already shown up to see that the voting does take place. We’ll have to wait and see what happens.
But life goes on in the mountains. And there
are always lots of little signs of life. For example, the other day I happened
to encounter Josefa, a woman who was operated on twice for cancer—once in 2002
and once in 2005. In both cases, Mission Mexico helped her get this medical
care in Mexico City. She is fine now, and she asked how Padre Federico (Father
Fred Monk, founding director of Mission Mexico) is. She will never forget his
name.
Josefa—ten years after her last cancer operation |
And in Xalpitzahuac last
evening, Bishop Dagoberto Sosa Arriaga, bishop of Tlapa, unveiled and blessed a
plaque beside the front door of a multi-purpose building (kitchen, health
center, education center, meeting room) that is now known as the “Padre Fred
Monk Room.”
Sister Lorena and Bishop Dagoberto during the unveiling and blessing of Father Fred's plaque |
The light wasn’t great and I’m
not a very good photographer, but the plaque (see photo below) reads:
To Mission Mexico — Canada.
Father Fred Monk
In gratitude
For your generosity and commitment
With our Nahuatl sisters and brothers
In the Mountain of Guerrero.
Thank you.
Sisters of St. Philip Neri in Xalpitzahuac
May 2015
Plaque for the Father Fred Monk Room (pretend you don't see the reflection of my image as I took the photo). "Nahuatl" is the name of the local indigenous culture and language. |
And it was a special honour
to be invited on Mother’s Day, May 10, to the home of Doña Marcelina in San
José Lagunas. Back in 1985, Doña Marcelina and her husband, Angel, invited me
often to their home for a meal. This time it was her daughters who prepared the
meal, but it was still a great visit.
Mike, Doña Marcelina, and her daughter Estela |
In October of 1984, a younger
sister of mine was ill in Canada with kidney problems, and I “gave” her a
kidney (I put “gave” in quotation marks because I still tell her that she
should pay me for the kidney that I “sold” her—no luck so far!). The doctors
told me that I should take things easy for a few months, so when I returned to
Mexico, I went to live in San José Lagunas for four months. I did take things
easy: a bit of carrying water and firewood and a lot of visiting and learning. That
was thirty years ago but I still have fond memories of those days.
Mike with children from San José Lagunas in 1985. Some of the children are still alive thirty years later; too many aren't. |
This coming Friday, June 5, I will be flying to Canada. The first week I
will be in and around Calgary (is it politically correct to think of Cochrane, Medicine
Hat, Bow Island, and Lethbridge as “around Calgary”?) Then I will visit family
and friends in Regina before returning to Mexico on June 22. I hope to see old
friends (and since I taught in Calgary in the late 70s and early 80s, yes, they
will be old—okay, at least older). Have a great week, everyone.
Nacho, Alondra, Mauricio, and Inés. Thanks for so very much, my friends. |